| Self esteem: You can develop it with Elaine Kissel’s help. Self esteem is such a crucial element for our sense of well being. Without it there is always a feeling of dissatisfaction with your self, too much self criticism, harsh self judgment ,and often depression and lack of confidence are the result. Self esteem is best developed when we are growing up from infancy and going through all the stages of life towards adulthood. When the necessary nurturing of self esteem is lacking in early childhood development, either from neglect, indirect or direct negative input, physical and emotional abuse etc. it must be recognized and dealt with effectively in the therapeutic process. Just as we need to factor in environmental influences, such as economically disadvantaged lifestyles in childhood and physical appearances often effects self esteem, as do poor role models. There are ways to undo the effect of those errors or failures and help the client develop high self esteem, a positive self concept, high self worth and a strong sense of self. Sometimes self esteem diminishes when there has been stresses and difficulties in life that have not been overcome, or there is guilt concerning some action taken or non action a person feel responsible for; even having suffered a serious illness or having lost independence. These effects too, can be overcome. The many negative impacts of poor self esteem include problems in developing healthy relationships, the inability to be assertive when necessary, to be easily undermined and too accepting of poor treatment of self by others; also to assume you are not worthy of success or happiness. The list goes on, as all who suffer from self esteem issues well know. There are many processes that can be employed to build all the appropriate elements into the psychology of every individual where they are lacking. Elaine Kissel knows, after your evaluation, just what it will take for you to develop self esteem and carry on with your life with a sense of well being and comfort within and about yourself. She knows with the positive attributes of self esteem built into your psychology you will be happier and more able to actualize your potential. It isn’t enough to merely suggest to subjects in hypnosis that their self esteem is growing. It is necessary to build into the psychology all the elements of self esteem and in a way that is natural while undoing the negative input or lack of positive input that resulted in the problem. Whatever is required to help you develop self esteem will be done in a comprehensive hypnotherapeutic approach by Elaine Kissel. It begins with an evaluation and from that Elaine can best determine what you need, the best approach for the process and what kind and how much hypnotherapy will be required . There are times when she also recommends Mind Mastery , as it helps build a strong foundation and structure for change, gives you life skills while it helps you support the hypnotherapeutic process. Click on the Mind Mastery link for more information about Mind Mastery. Call 248-865-9598 to make your appointment for your evaluation Visa Mastercard and PayPal accepted. |